FUNERAL CEREMONIES
Honouring life’s final chapter
Funeral Ceremonies
When we say goodbye to someone we love, we need a ceremony that truly reflects who they were—their spirit, their values, and the unique impact they made on the world. As your funeral celebrant, I create meaningful ceremonies that honour your loved one’s life journey with dignity, warmth, and personal significance.
When your loved one passes then you will turn to a celebrant to help you plan and deliver the funeral service.
If you choose me as your celebrant, then you will be assured of getting a professionally written service that reflects the life and interests of the person you are remembering.
Each funeral service is bespoke. I will help you to settle on songs, poetry, prose or prayers that might form part of the service. The service might reflect the religious faith of your loved one, or it might contain no reference to religion whatsoever. I can deliver the whole service for you or facilitate the involvement of family or friends in delivering key aspects of the service.
If you do not contact me directly, then it is likely that your funeral director will have initiated contact. I will confirm some basic details about your loved one with the funeral director. Once this is done, I will be in touch to arrange a meeting with you. This meeting would normally take place at your home, but you may choose to meet me at a coffee shop, a community hall or some other place that might be handy for you.
Memorials
A memorial ceremony can allow greater flexibility for the celebration of a life. Memorial events can take place more or less anywhere, without the constraints of space or time that tend to impact on funeral arrangements. Memorials may take place sometime after a funeral, allowing more time for planning ahead.
Such occasions generally allow far more time to fully commemorate the life of a loved one.
Village halls, community centres, gardens, pubs and beaches are just a few of the many possible venues for a memorial.
If a private funeral has taken place for immediate family only, the family may then arrange a memorial ceremony to enable participation by all those whose lives were touched by their loved one, and who wish to commemorate and pay tribute to their life and passing.
Working with you to create and deliver a memorable memorial event is another service I offer.
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I am here to guide you through a reflective and often challenging time.
Scattering of Ashes
The scattering of ashes of a loved one may take place sometime after the cremation. A symbolic gesture carried out at a place that is meaningful to either you or your departed. This final farewell can help to bring peace and closure to family members and friends.
Some families may choose a short reading or a poem or you may have written words from the heart. You may wish to light a candle, scatter petals, have a piece of memorable music or simply stand in silence, whatever, you wish.
I am here to guide you, creating a memorable ceremony and will deliver at your chosen place.
MY STORY
Hi, I’m Tamar
I’m a qualified funeral celebrant, but more importantly, I’m someone who truly understands the weight of loss. From a young age, I’ve experienced the profound impact grief can have – its complexity, its silence, and the way it changes life in both seen and unseen ways.
Because of this, I bring more than just professionalism to the role – I bring empathy, warmth, and genuine compassion. I know how hard it can be to say goodbye, and how important it is to honour someone’s life in a way that feels personal, respectful, and real.
Whether you’re facing a recent or sudden loss, or preparing for a goodbye that has been a long time coming, I will be beside you to create a meaningful ceremony that reflects the unique life of the person you’ve lost – their story, their values, and their impact.
I’m here to listen, to guide, and to help you shape a farewell that brings comfort and connection during a difficult time. If you’re not sure where to begin, that’s fine. Together, we’ll find the right words, the right tone, and the right way to say goodbye.
THE PROCESS
I understand that this is a deeply personal time, and the process of planning a funeral can feel overwhelming. My role is to ease that burden and help you create a meaningful, heartfelt ceremony that truly reflects your loved one’s life and legacy.
Whether you have found me independently, I’ve been recommended by a friend or we’ve connected through a funeral directors, here’s how I work:
- Personal Consultation
I begin by visiting you in the comfort of your own home, or another place where you feel most at ease. During this time, we’ll talk about your loved one – their life, passions, and the things that made them unique. Every conversation will be approached with warmth, respect, and you’ll have space to share memories, emotions, and thoughts at your own pace.
- Getting to Know Your Loved One
In order to create a truly personal service, I may also reach out to other family members, close friends, or anyone who knew them well. These conversations allow me to build a clearer, richer understanding of their life, character, and the special moments that shaped them.
- Crafting the Ceremony
Once I’ve gathered the details, I’ll work closely with you to design a service that honours your loved one’s spirit. Together, we will work to create a special and meaningful occasion, to celebrate their life and achievements, that is completely unique to them. The ceremony will be written specifically for you.
This can include choosing meaningful readings, any elements of traditions, beliefs, that reflect their values, passions, and legacy.
We can include life highlights, favourite music. You may want to include a hymn or a prayer.
They may not have been religious but still may have had a favourite hymn or reading that you want to include. Or not, it is entirely up to you.
- Rehearsal & Final Touches
Before the service, we’ll do a rehearsal if needed, to ensure everything runs smoothly. You’ll feel confident and ready, knowing that I’m here to oversee all the details, from the order of service to any final touches, such as photos or memorabilia, that will make the ceremony just right.
- On the Day
On the day of the service, I’ll be there to lead the ceremony with the utmost care and respect. My goal is to create a space where your loved one is honoured and remembered in a way that feels genuine and healing for everyone present.
This process ensures that every service is deeply personal, reflective of the life being celebrated, and tailored to your needs as a family. It’s not just about the ceremony; it’s about creating a space of connection, remembrance, and peace.